Family Constellations - Shamanic Ancestral Roots Healing

Frequently Asked Questions

So maybe you learned about family constellations through Netflix's hit series "Another Self", saw it on "Sex, Love & Goop", Gwynth Paltrow's Netflix wellness series or simply heard about this healing method from your friends. Whatever the reason you're in the right place if you're looking for more information about this amazing healing technique that is rapidly gaining attention in the USA and beyond.

What is Family Constellations Therapy?

Family Constellations is a therapeutic approach that explores the deeper, often hidden dynamics within family systems. It was developed by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger in the 1990s. This method reveals how unresolved family traumas and entanglements can affect our lives, often without our conscious awareness. By bringing these issues to light, Family Constellations aims to restore balance and healing within the family system.

What Are the Benefits of Family Constellations?

  • Resolution of Deep-Seated Issues: Family Constellations can bring to light hidden family dynamics that may be causing emotional pain, relationship problems, or even physical ailments.
  • Improved Relationships: By addressing unresolved issues within the family system, individuals often experience improved relationships with family members, partners, and others.
  • Greater Understanding of Self: This process helps individuals gain a deeper understanding of their own behaviors and patterns, leading to personal growth and self-awareness.
  • Healing Across Generations: Family Constellations can have a profound impact not just on the individual but also on future generations, by resolving traumas that have been passed down.

How Do Group Family Constellation Sessions Work?

Family Constellations are most widely known as a group session involving facilitators and a group of participants. The person seeking healing, known as the "seeker," presents an issue they are facing. The facilitator then guides the seeker to select representatives from the group to stand in for family members or significant elements in their life. These representatives position themselves in the space, often guided by an intuitive sense of where they belong. The facilitator then observes the dynamics that emerge, offering insights and interventions to help resolve the issue.

What Are the Origins of Family Constellations?

Family Constellations originated from the work of Bert Hellinger, who integrated various therapeutic traditions, including psychoanalysis, Gestalt therapy, and systemic family therapy. Hellinger’s approach is also influenced by his time as a missionary in South Africa, where he observed the Zulu people’s emphasis on ancestral connections and community harmony. These experiences helped shape his understanding of family dynamics and the importance of resolving past traumas.

How are your Shamanic Ancestral Roots Healing sessions different from standard Family Constellations

Shaman Ale ancestral roots are in Colombia where her family has a strong tie to the shamanic healing tradition. While Ale has been trained in traditional family constellations she brings in her shamanic background and a variety of healing techniques, along with her professional background as a psychologist to provide a richer understanding to the therapy.

How Does Family Constellations Compare to Other Therapies?

Family Constellations vs. Traditional Therapies

Unlike many therapies, which often focuses on individual issues and conscious thoughts, Family Constellations delves into the unconscious influences from one’s family system. It is less about analyzing and more about experiencing and resolving hidden dynamics through aN experiential process.

Family Constellations and Ancestral Healing

Family Constellations shares similarities with ancestral healing practices found in various cultures. Both approaches recognize the impact of generational traumas and seek to heal the past to improve the present and future. While ancestral healing often involves rituals and spiritual practices, Family Constellations focuses on the psychological and emotional aspects within a therapeutic framework.

Family Constellations aligns with modern trends like mindfulness and systemic coaching. Mindfulness encourages awareness of the present moment, which is crucial in constellation work as participants often rely on intuitive feelings and sensations. Systemic coaching, which examines an individual’s role within larger systems (like work, family, or society), shares a similar perspective to Family Constellations, emphasizing the interconnectedness of individuals within a system.

Is Family Constellations Recognized?

Family Constellations is a form of spiritual healing and is extremely popular throughout Europe and Latin America where we were trained. The strong following and personal testimonies strongly support its benefits.

Who Can Benefit from Family Constellations?

Family Constellations can benefit anyone who is struggling with unresolved family issues, relationship problems, or emotional blocks. It is particularly useful for those who feel stuck in repeating patterns or who are dealing with generational trauma. People from all walks of life, including those who have tried other forms of therapy without success, may find Family Constellations to be a powerful tool for healing.

How Can I Experience a Family Constellations Therapy?

To find a qualified Family Constellations practitioner, consider searching through professional organizations, attending workshops, or asking for referrals from trusted sources. It’s important to choose a facilitator with proper training and experience, as the success of the therapy often depends on the skill and intuition of the practitioner.

Additional Resources

For those interested in learning more about Family Constellations, here are some recommended books and resources:

Netflix's series "Another Self"
Gwyneth Paltrow's Sex, Love & Goop on Netflix"
A good explainer video on YouTube

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The session was absolutely incredible! I was able to heal a very deep wound... Alejandra is absolutely sweet and beautifully grounded. My family constellation session was incredible! I had heard about this kind of modality, but never signed on to receive a session. Well, I've been going deep into my inner work, and it seemed like everywhere I turned I was being nudged to book a session. So I booked, and the session was absolutely incredible! Definitely have your tissues ready! What I loved. The most was some thing that I thought I made peace with showed a completely different side to look at and I was able to heal a very deep wound that really was hurting me personally in my life. Alejandra is absolutely sweet and beautifully grounded. She is so easy to talk to, and is so intuitive. I absolutely loved my session, and highly recommend everyone do so!

Mariette A. USA

Family Constellations by Alejandra are the most powerful therapy sessions I've ever had... She is very gifted and she is a gift to the world. Family Constellations by Alejandra are the most powerful therapy sessions I've ever had. She takes you straight to the root cause and the place you have never imagined your problems lie. She is very gifted and she is a gift to the world. I sent many friends her way and every single one them were in awe.

Laura D. USA

This was my second session with Alejandra and as the last one was, it was transformative! I am excited to see the positive changes it will make in my life as the last one did. This was my second session with Alejandra and as the last one was, it was transformative! I am excited to see the positive changes it will make in my life as the last one did. Thank you Alejandra!

Maureen R. USA

Amazing deep healing... feel like entire planets and constellations are moving right now. She is worth having a session with and discovering this deep river of healing love. Amazing deep healing: the place within that never was able to move never was clear never had a voice: all was opened up, revealed and spoken with in the healing space Alejandra creates and opens. She is very sweet and safe to share with and very focused on the work and healing that needs to be addressed here and now no matter how back in the generations the issues are located. She is very patient and deeply into feelings: she gave me time to really deeply feel inside and all the places shapes and forms those feelings are within me. She assisted me in speaking more clearly with myself. She gave me many suggestions for integration and deeper embrace of the work done in session. i feel very complete and very supported and free to return to her for more work if I choose to. I am gonna choose. All the power in my life is mine to choose and direct and show up in. It was fun, tender, deeply healing; feel like entire planets and constellations are moving right now. It will take some time for what was done in such a short time to move and dance and reveal. Again, I feel supported and safe and clear in the process I am in. I am grateful for Alejandra. My experience is she is worth having a session with and discovering this deep river of healing love that she offers.

Tigres USA

I was reassured from the very first session that she was the right person to help me... I'll be forever thankful. I'm so thankful for having found Alejandra and have her guide me through my journey to healing. Having had unpleasant and unhelpful experiences with therapy and psychoanalysis before, I was reassured from the very first session that she was the right person to help me get control over my anxiety, overcome childhood trauma and connect with spirituality. I have been able to find a way to forgive and love myself and with this love all those around me. She helped me rebuild self confidence that have made a big difference in my personal and professional life. I know feel like I have the tools to deal with life's difficulties and find enjoyment in every day. I'll be forever thankful.

Lorena D. USA

Alejandra is much more than a therapist: she's a true guide and a light on my journey toward acceptance and personal growth. Alejandra is much more than a therapist: she's a true guide and a light on my journey toward acceptance and personal growth. I've worked with her on many aspects of my life, and thanks to her support, I'm beginning to achieve dreams that once seemed impossible. She listens with empathy, delves deeply without judgment, knows how to guide you where you need to go, and you feel she truly cares. I'll never tire of thanking her for her presence in my life.

Ana R. USA

My session with Alejandra was amazing... I felt relief and peace and new realizations came to me during and after the session. My session with Alejandra was amazing. She was able to tune in deeply into our family constellation and bring up some very important insights. I felt relief and peace and new realizations came to me during and after the session.

Svemir B. USA

Alexandra led me through a family constellation and she did it with insight, skill, simplicity and love... I recommend your work to anyone seeking clarity. Alexandra led me through a family constellation and she did it with insight, skill, simplicity and love. Thank you for shedding further light on my situation, Alexandra, it's been very helpful to me. I recommend your work to anyone seeking clarity.

Pearl Y. USA

I will always be grateful for her dedication since there were days that it was challenging to speak and she had the patience and the right words. It took me years to find someone that I can trust about my personal life. I tried different therapists that only wanted to give me medication for my anxiety during the first session. However, Alejandra never give up on me and I was able to open myself about my childhood problems that I carried my whole life. I speak Spanish and English, but when I tried talking about my childhood in English, it was hard to express myself and finding someone that can speak Spanish was plus in my journey. I will always be grateful for her dedication since there were days that it was challenging to speak and she had the patience and the right words.

Angelica Y. USA

I've found each session to be profoundly moving... The time and experience has felt sacred to me. I've attended 3 sessions with Alejandra and Jay. I've found each session to be profoundly moving in a unique way. The time and experience has felt sacred to me, and that would not be possible without the care and supportive attention of the facilitators. I would recommend them to anyone interested in growth and prepared for a challenge.

Trevor K. USA

Alejandra really taps into the Energy... You will feel a lot lighter in your Being. Alejandra really taps into the Energy of the room and I felt it was a safe place to release and resolve past family issues. Would highly recommend anyone to try her services. You will feel a lot lighter in your Being. Infinite Gratitude

Harry W. USA

I find Family Constellations Therapy an astounding modality... I felt they created a highly warm, caring, and safe container. Let's face it, meeting our challenges head on and create change in our life is not always an easy task. Nor is the direction always clear and comfortable. To gain more insights and discover the root cause of issues there's a way. Throughout the years, I have involved myself in many healing practices. I wanted to live a life that I could thrive in rather than survive in. I find Family Constellations Therapy an astounding modality for this. It has really assisted me to dive deep within myself. I have created more understanding, peace, love, balance, and harmony in my life with a way that I feel is efficient, has grace, dignity, empathy, and compassion. My experience with Jay and Ale was very positive. I felt they created a highly warm, caring, and safe container to do the work needed. I found them to be extremely passionate and excellent teachers and guides with this process. I look forward to experiencing more Family Constellations Therapy Workshops with them. Here's to being unlimited!

Bekki S. USA