Couple problems are personal problems that are expressed in the relationship. And these problems only emerge in the love bond, since being with another person brings to light aspects of oneself that were in the shadows.
Unfortunately, when we are in a relationship, the unresolved anger and pains of the past are acted out in the present with the other through our reactions.
It is this wounded child](https://alejandraleon.com/2017/05/26/sanando-al-nino-interior/) that we carry inside that makes us act this way. The pains that we could not express in our childhood we carry like a backpack, and they express themselves with our reactions before we are aware of them, so that we find ourselves installed there before we can think. These reactions are the ones that cause us the most problems in intimate relationships.
In many cases of separation the problem is not in the relationship of one with the other; but in unresolved issues of _one of them (or both of them) with their own past.
When we carry around our wounded children we have the feeling that we are never in the present,** we are always reacting to things that happened to us many years ago.
Until I don't deal with this wounded child, he will continue to react and make my intimate relationships worse. And the only one who can listen to him is myself, when I deal with his sadness, his anger.
When we establish a couple we make an unconscious pact in which, for example, I expect you to be the father who will not abandon me and you expect me to be the mother who will accept you unconditionally as you are. And when this does not happen, because it is impossible for the other to heal my wounds, I begin to blame you.
**Our wounded children need a space to express their anger and pain. When we give it to them, they begin to grow up and do not interfere in our intimate relationships.
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