"If your relationship is not what you wanted it to be, take 100% of your responsibility and commit to applying these tips while you still have time."
Never stop flirting. Never stop dating. Never ever think you have her secured. Never forget that she chose you, Value it.
Fall in love over and over and over again. There will always be changes, both in her and in you, and that is why both of you will have to re-elect each other every day. Guard her heart, otherwise you may lose it and may never get it back. Fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.
3. **Always see the best in her. Focus on what you Love and not on what bothers you, and you will realize that you are the luckiest man on Earth to have that Woman who has chosen to give you her Heart.
4. **It is not your job to correct her. You must Love her as she is, without expecting her to change except on her own initiative. And if she does, Love and accept whatever she becomes.
5. **Take responsibility for your own emotions. It is not the other person's job to make you happy, you must seek your own happiness and when you find it, your joy will flood your relationship.
6**. Don't blame him/her if you get frustrated or angry with him/her**. They are your emotions and it is your responsibility. When you feel this way, take your time and look inward.
7. Let her be. When she's sad or upset, your only job is to hug and support her. Let her know that you listen to her, that she is important and that you are the pillar she can always lean on. This way she will trust you and open her Soul to you. Never run away from these moments, stay and be strong.
8. **Don't take everything so seriously. Laugh and make her laugh, play with her. Laughter makes everything so much easier.
9. **Touch her Soul every day. Know the ways she feels important, validated and appreciated to make her feel like a Queen.
10. Make yourself present. Don't just give her your time, but also your attention and your soul. Treat her as if she is your most valuable treasure.
- Stimulate her sexuality. Let her melt into your feminine softness, as long as she knows she can fully rely on your masculine strength.
12. **Women are good at giving and giving, and sometimes they need to be reminded to take time for themselves, especially if they have children. They need that space to renew and reconnect.
13. **Be vulnerable. She needs to know your feelings and fears in order to understand and Love you. Listen to her with all your heart.
14. **Never stop growing together. Look for common goals, dreams and visions that you can work on as a team.
Don't worry about money. Work together and find ways to balance each other's strengths to earn it.
**Forgive immediately and focus on the future. Holding on to past mistakes you or she has made is a heavy anchor that will always hold you back and block your heart. Forgiveness is freedom.
17. **Always choose Love. In short, this is the only advice you need. If this is your guiding principle, nothing will threaten the Happiness of your Family.
(Gerald Rogers)