The 5 Most Common Blockages Preventing Migrants from Thriving #

The unseen obstacles that sabotage your success without you knowing it #

Have you ever wondered why:

• You work harder than anyone else but fail to get ahead?
• Every time you're close to success, something ruins it?
• Others with less effort thrive while you struggle?
• Do you feel stuck in the same place year after year?
• Do you sabotage your own achievements without understanding why?

It's not a lack of effort.
It's not lack of talent.
It is not bad luck.

**It's invisible systemic blockages.

During more than 20 years working with migrants in Europe and America, I have identified 5 recurring blocks that appear again and again and again.

They are like invisible programs running in the background, sabotaging every attempt to thrive.

Today I'm going to show you what they are, where they come from, and most importantly:

**How to free yourself from them.

📑 INDEX. #

1. Why effort is not enough: systemic blockages
2. Blockage 1: The family glass ceiling
3. Block 2: Loyalty to suffering
   Block 3: The transgenerational imposter syndrome](#block3) 5.
4. Block 4: The fear of success (yes, it exists)
5. Block 5: The paralysis of the double belonging
6. How to know what your main blockage is
7. The process of liberation in session
8. Testimonies of liberation
9. The identification exercise you can do today
10. Start your liberation process

1. WHY EFFORT IS NOT ENOUGH: SYSTEMIC BLOCKAGES. #

"Willpower cannot fight an unconscious conflict ". #

Let me tell you about Juan.

Juan, 40 years old, Mexican in Texas.

Arrived at 18 with a backpack and $50.

For 20 years:

• Worked 80 hours a week.
• Learned English
• Studied at night
• Saved every penny
• Never complained

**And yet...

Every time he was close to a promotion → something went wrong.
Every time he saved for a business → a "family emergency" took the money.
Every time a great opportunity came along → I sabotaged it with an "unexplained" decision

His friends would say: *"Give it more effort!

But Juan had no more desire to give.

He was exhausted. Frustrated. Losing hope.

What John didn't know: it wasn't a lack of effort. #

In his first family constellation session, we discovered something that changed everything:

John had 3 active systemic blockages: **

His father had failed financially all his life → Juan unconsciously felt that prospering was betraying his father.
2. His family in Mexico lived in poverty → Juan carried survivor's guilt
His great-grandfather had lost everything in the Mexican Revolution → Juan carried an "ancestral program" of "it is not safe to succeed" 3.

**None of these blocks were conscious **.

Juan thought he just needed to work harder.

But he was fighting invisible forces more powerful than his will.

The difference between external obstacles and internal blockages.

External obstacles (real):

• Discrimination
• Language barriers
• Lack of paperwork
• Limited resources

Solution: Strategy, resources, support

Internal (systemic) blockages:

• Invisible loyalties
• Unconscious guilt
• Transgenerational programs
• Self-sabotage

Solution: Deep systemic work

Bert Hellinger, creator of family constellations, explains it:

• "You can't resolve by willpower what is a systemic conflict. It's like trying to push on a door that is locked from the inside. It doesn't matter how hard you push. You need the key. " * *"You need the key.

**And that key is in your unconscious family system.

📺 Watch: "Why Effort Is Not Enough: Systemic Blockages"

2. LOCK 1: THE FAMILY GLASS CEILING #

"I can't be more than my parents " #

This is the most common and devastating blockage in migrants.

What is the family glass ceiling? #

It is an invisible boundary in your family system that dictates:

"This is as far as you can go. No more. "

And that limit is determined by the level of success/happiness/prosperity of your parents (or grandparents).

Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy, a Hungarian-American psychiatrist and pioneer in family therapy, identified it:

• "There is invisible accounting in families. When a child significantly outperforms his parents, he unconsciously feels that he is betraying the family order. He then self-sabotages himself in order to 'keep the balance'. " * *"There is an invisible accounting in families.

How it manifests itself:

SIGNAL 1: Self-sabotage just before success** SIGNAL 1: Self-sabotage just before success SIGNAL 2: Self-sabotage just before success

You are about to:

• Closing a big business deal
• Buying a house
• Achieve a major promotion
• Earn more money than your father earned in a lifetime

And all of a sudden:

• You make a "stupid" decision that ruins it
• You get sick
• An "accident" stops you
• You just "don't feel like it" and you let it go

SIGNAL 2: Discomfort with success*.

When you do well:

• You feel guilty
• You can't enjoy it
• You have to downplay it ("it's no big deal ")
• You need to compensate by giving it your all

SIGNAL 3: Repetitive failure at the same level.

You reach a certain level of success and always return to the same place.

As if there is an invisible ceiling that you can't go through.

Ana's story: "I couldn't earn more than my father "**. #

Ana, 35 years old - Peru → California

"My father was a cab driver all his life. He earned approximately $30,000 a year. *

*I studied, became a marketing consultant. I started earning well.

*But every time my annual income approached $30,000... something happened.

• I got fired
• I lost customers
• I was making decisions that were destroying my business

It happened 5 times in 7 years.

*I thought it was bad luck. Or that I wasn't good at business.

Until the constellation session. "

What we discovered in your constellation:** ** What we discovered in your constellation:

Ana had an invisible loyalty: "If I earn more than my father, I disgrace him. "

Her father had worked 60 hours a week for 30 years and never prospered.

Ana unconsciously felt that her success was a betrayal of her sacrifice.

**The Healing Movement

In the session, Ana stood in front of a representative of her father and said:

💚 "Dear Dad, I see your effort. I see your sacrifice. "
💚 "I take the life you gave me. And I honor it by thriving, not failing. " 💚
💚 "My success doesn't dishonor you. It celebrates you. "
💚 "I give you permission to be proud of me. " 💚 *"My success does not dishonor you.

And something amazing happened.

His father's representative (not knowing anything about the story) started crying and said spontaneously:

*"Daughter, I worked so that you could fly. Fly!

Result: Result:

6 months later, Ana broke the roof.
She earned $80,000 that year.
No sabotage. No guilt.

**The blockade had been released.

How to find out if you have this lock:** ** #

✓ Your income is "stuck" at a specific level.
✓ You feel bad when you do better than your parents.
✓ Self-sabotage just before major accomplishments.
✓ Thoughts like: "Who do I think I am? " ✓ You feel bad when you do better than your parents.
✓ You constantly minimize your accomplishments.
✓ You need to "pay" for your success (giving money, compulsively helping).

📺 See: "The Family Glass Ceiling in Migrants"

3. BLOCK 2: LOYALTY TO SUFFERING #

"I must suffer as they suffered " #

This blockage is particularly cruel because it keeps you in pain for love.

What is loyalty to suffering? #

It is an unconscious commitment that says:

"If I suffer, I stay connected to the ones I love. "

Bert Hellinger called it "blind love ":

"The child unconsciously says, 'I would rather suffer (or die, or fail) myself, than see you suffer, mom/dad/brother.' It is a deep love, but blind. He does not see that this sacrifice does not help anyone. " * "".

How it manifests itself:

**SIGNAL 1: You can't enjoy anything.

You have:

• A good house
• A good job
• Family here
• Stability

But you can't enjoy it.

Every moment of joy comes with a pang of guilt.

SIGNAL 2: Compulsive need to suffer.

When things are going well, you unconsciously create problems:

• Relationship drama
• Self-destructive decisions
• Return to toxic situations
• Refuse help when you need it most

SIGNAL 3: Feeling that happiness is betrayal** **SIGNAL 3: Feeling that happiness is betrayal

Recurring thoughts:

• How can I be happy when my family is suffering?
• If I enjoy my life, I forget them "* * "My mother sacrificed everything, the least I can do is to suffer.
• My mother sacrificed everything, the least I can do is to suffer too.

Roberto's story: "If I suffered, my brother wasn't alone "** ** "If I suffered, my brother wasn't alone "** "If I suffered, my brother wasn't alone #

Roberto, 38 years old - Colombia → Florida

*My younger brother stayed in Colombia. He is in a difficult situation. Financially, emotionally.

*I'm fine here. But I can't enjoy it.

*Every time I have a happy moment... I'm overcome with a crushing sadness.

*♪ It's as if to feel joy is to betray it. ♪

What we discovered in his constellation: **

Roberto had an unconscious pact with his brother:

"If I suffer too, I will not abandon you. "

In his unconscious mind: suffering together = love.

But that suffering didn't help his brother.
It only destroyed Roberto.

**The healing movement

Roberto stood in front of a representative of his brother and said:

💙 "Brother, I love you. But my suffering doesn't alleviate yours. " *.
💙 "I can love you without needing to suffer with you. "
💙 "I give myself permission to be well, and that doesn't betray you. "
💙 "In fact, the better off I am, the more I can help you. "

And the brother's representative (not knowing the story) spontaneously said:

"Brother, I don't want you to suffer for me. I want you to be happy. "

Roberto cried for 20 minutes.

**Result.

For the first time in years, he was able to enjoy a guilt-free dinner.
He was able to laugh without feeling like he was betraying someone.
And oddly enough, he began to help his brother more effectively because he was no longer paralyzed by guilt.

How do you know if you have this blockage? #

✓ Can't enjoy your accomplishments
✓ Constant guilt when you are doing well.
✓ You create drama/problems when everything is calm.
✓ You refuse help or good things.
✓ You identify with the role of "the one who suffers."
✓ Feel that happiness is betrayal

📺 Watch: "Loyalty to Suffering and How to Break Free"

4. BLOCK 3: TRANSGENERATIONAL IMPOSTER SYNDROME. #

"I don't deserve to be here " #

This block is especially common in second generation and successful migrants.

What is transgenerational imposter syndrome? #

It is different from "normal" impostor syndrome.

It's not just thinking "I'm not enough ".

It's feeling at a deep level:

"I have no right to be here. I don't deserve what I have. I'm cheating everyone. "

Pauline Rose Clance, an American psychologist who identified imposter syndrome, explains:

"Impostor syndrome is the persistent feeling of being a fraud, despite evidence of competence. For migrants, this is multiplied because they carry the devaluation of generations. " * * "The impostor syndrome is the persistent feeling of being a fraud, despite evidence of competence.

Why it is transgenerational: ** Why it is transgenerational:

It's not just your insecurity.

You're carrying the belittling of your ancestors:

• Your grandfather who was treated as "inferior".
• Your father whose title was worthless here
• Your mother who was a domestic servant
• Your ancestors who were colonized, enslaved, humiliated

Mark Wolynn, author of "It Didn't Start with You," explains:

• "Devaluation is transmitted epigenetically. Your cells carry the memory of the humiliation of your ancestors. " * *"Your cells carry the memory of your ancestors' humiliation.

How it manifests itself:

SIGNAL 1: Self-sabotage before being "discovered "** **SIGNAL 1: Self-sabotage prior to being "discovered

You accomplish something great and think:

• "It was luck "
• "Anyone could have done it " "They're going to find out I don't know anything "
• *"They're going to find out that I don't know anything.

Then you sabotage before you get "found out".

SIGNAL 2: Compulsive over-preparation.

You work 3 times harder than others to prove you "deserve to be here".

You obsessively prepare for everything.

But you never feel like it's enough.

**Signal 3: Constantly minimizing achievements.

They tell you: "What an incredible success!"

You respond: *"No, it was nothing. I was lucky. Others deserved it more.

Not out of humility. Out of genuine belief of not deserving.

Miguel's story: "I felt like I was pretending to be a professional "** **. #

Miguel, 42 years old - Dominican Republic → Boston (second generation).

*I was born here. I studied at Harvard. MBA. I work in consulting. I make six figures.

*But every day I feel like I'm faking it.

*As if at any moment someone is going to say: 'Wait, what is this Dominican doing here?

*I work twice as hard as my colleagues to 'prove' that I deserve to be there.

But it's never enough. "

What we discovered in your constellation: **

Michael was carrying the devaluation of 3 generations:

1. his great-grandfather: cane cutter, treated as "less than human" 2.
2. his grandfather: immigrant, constantly humiliated
3. His father: engineering degree that "wasn't worth it" in the USA, ended up in manual jobs

Miguel had inherited that devaluation.

Although he had "made it," his family system still carried the message:

"You are not enough. You don't deserve. "

The Healing Movement:** ** The Healing Movement:** The Healing Movement:** The Healing Movement:** The Healing Movement:**

Michael stood in front of representatives of his ancestors and said:

💜 "Great-grandfather, grandfather, father: you were treated as if you were worthless. But that was a lie. ".
💜 "You were worth. And I am worth. "
💜 "I take your strength. And I reject your belittling. " 💜 "I reject your belittling. "
💜 "I deserve to be where I am. My achievements are legitimate. " 💜

And the representatives (without knowing the story) began to straighten up. To grow. To stand with dignity.

And they said to him:

*"Son, we were humiliated. But you do not have to bear that humiliation. Be great for us.

Result: Result:

Michael stopped compulsively over-preparing.
He was able to receive praise without minimizing it.
He asked for (and received) a raise he had been putting off for years.

**The transgenerational imposter had been set free.

How do you know if you have this blockage? #

✓ Constant feeling of "not deserving" to be where you are.
✓ Fear of being "found out."
✓ Compulsive over-preparation.
✓ Automatically minimizing accomplishments
✓ Constantly comparing yourself (and always losing).
✓ Feeling like you are "pretending to be a professional" ✓ Being a "fake professional"

📺 Watch: "The Transgenerational Impostor Syndrome"

5. BLOCK 4: FEAR OF SUCCESS (YES, IT EXISTS). #

*"If I succeed, I will lose what I love. #

This block seems paradoxical. But it is extremely common.

Why would anyone be afraid of success? #

Because on an unconscious level, success is associated with loss.

Gay Hendricks, an American psychologist, identified it as "the upper limit problem:

"Every person has an internal 'thermostat' of how much success, love, or happiness he or she can tolerate. When you exceed that limit, you unconsciously create problems getting back to your 'comfort zone'. " * *"When you exceed that limit, you unconsciously create problems returning to your 'comfort zone.

For migrants, success is associated with: **

LOSS 1: Loss of Identity** **Loss of Identity

If I prosper too much, I will stop being who I am. I will become 'gringo/a'. I'll lose my roots. " * "If I prosper too much, I'll stop being who I am.

LOSS 2: Loss of family connection.

If I do very well, my family will see me differently. They won't understand me anymore. They will reject me. " * "If I do too well, my family will see me differently.

LOSS 3: Loss of the "shared struggle ".

*If I no longer fight like them, what will we have in common?

**LOSS 4: Exposure to Danger

*If I stand out too much, I will become a target (of envy, theft, migration, discrimination).

How it manifests itself:** ** How it manifests itself:** ** How it manifests itself:** ** How it manifests itself:** #

SIGNAL 1: Sabotage just prior to success** SIGNAL 1: Sabotage just prior to success SIGNAL 2: Sabotage just before success

You're on the verge of accomplishing something big and....

• You "forget" a crucial meeting
• You make a decision that ruins it
• You get sick
• You create a conflict that prevents it

SIGNAL 2: Success followed by crisis*.

You achieve something great → immediately afterwards there is a crisis (illness, accident, conflict).

As if your system says: "Too much success. Let's return to balance. "

SIGNAL 3: Staying "comfortable" in the struggle zone.

You'd rather stay in a job you know (even if it doesn't pay well) than take a chance on something better.

Struggle is familiar. Success is terrifying.

Carmen's story: "Success meant losing my identity "**. #

Carmen, 36 years old - Guatemala → Texas

*Every time I started to thrive, something in me... would... shut down.

*It was as if I couldn't sustain success.

*I'd get to a certain level and then everything would fall apart.

What we discovered in his constellation: **

Carmen unconsciously associated success with loss of identity.

Her mother had told her all her life:

• *"Don't forget where you come from "**.
• Don't become like them".
• Money changes people.

Carmen interpreted unconsciously:

If I become too successful = I will become 'different' = I will lose my identity = my family will reject me "** **.

So her system was "protecting" her from success.

The healing movement:** ** "If I become too successful = I will become 'different' = I will lose my identity = my family will reject me.

Carmen had to make two moves:

Movement 1: Standing in front of her mother (symbolically):

❤️ "Mom, I can thrive without forgetting where I come from. "
❤️ "My success does not erase my roots. It honors them. "
❤️ "I can be successful and still be a Guatemalan. " *

Movement 2: Standing in front of her ancestors:

❤️ "Ancestors, you fought so that I could thrive. "
❤️ "My success is your victory, not my betrayal. " Move 2: Standing in front of her ancestors.
❤️ "I give myself permission to shine. " "I give myself permission to shine. "

Result: Result:

6 months later, Carmen opened her own business.
No sabotage. No crisis.
And she feels more connected to her roots, not less.

How to know if you have this blockage: #

✓ Sabotage just before major achievements.
✓ Success followed by crisis.
✓ You prefer "struggle zone" to success zone.
✓ Fear that success will change you.
✓ Fear that family will reject you if you thrive ✓ Fear that you will be rejected by family if you thrive
✓ You associate success with danger or loss

📺 Watch: "Fear of Success in Migrants"

6. BLOCKAGE 5: THE PARALYSIS OF DOUBLE MEMBERSHIP. #

"I am neither from here nor from there ". #

This blockage is exclusive to the migrant.

And it is devastating because it leaves you without a place from which to act.

What is the paralysis of dual membership? #

It's when your identity is so split between two cultures/countries that you can't move in either direction.

You are literally paralyzed in the middle.

**Stephan Hausner, a German constellator and migration expert, explains:

• "When the migrant cannot honor both places, he is caught between two worlds. He cannot put down roots in either. And without roots, there is no growth. " * Stephan Hausner*.

How it manifests itself:

**SIGNAL 1: Chronic Indecision

You can't make decisions because every choice means betray one side:

• Do I stay or do I go back (paralysis)?
• Do I invest here or there (paralysis)?
• My children grow up with what culture (paralysis)?

SIGNAL 2: Feeling of "imposter" on both sides** **SIGNAL 2: Feeling of "imposter" on both sides

In the USA: "I'm not American enough " ** **Signal 3: "I'm not American enough
In your country: *"I'm not really from here anymore.

Result: You don't belong anywhere.

SIGNAL 3: Divided energy = mediocre results*.

Your attention is always divided:

• Half of your energy preoccupied over there
• Half of your energy trying to survive here
• Result:** You don't accomplish much anywhere.

David's story: "I was living half in two places "**. #

David, 45 years old - El Salvador → California

*All my adult life I've lived with one foot here and one foot there.

*When I'm here, I feel guilty for not being there.

*When I visit there, I feel strange, as if I no longer belong.

*I send money to El Salvador but I can't save here.

*I think of going back but I don't.

I'm... trapped. " *I'm... trapped.

What we discovered in your constellation: **

David was literally split in two.

His heart was in El Salvador.
His body was in California.
But his presence was nowhere.

**The healing movement.

In the session, we placed two objects:

• One representing El Salvador.
• One representing California

And David was in the middle, looking at both.

We asked him to:

Step 1: To stand completely in California. Feel his feet on this earth.

Step 2: To look toward El Salvador and say:

💚 "Dear El Salvador, you will always live in my heart. ".
💚 "But my life is here now. "
💚 "I honor you from here. I don't need to be there physically to love you. " 💚 " 💚 *"I love you from here.

Step 3: Turn around to California and say:

💙 "California, I give myself permission to take root here. "
💙 "It's not betrayal. It's life. "
💙 "I can be present here without forgetting there. "

Result:

David began being present for the first time in 20 years.
He saved to buy a house (here).
His relationships improved (because he was present).
And interestingly, he was better able to help his family in El Salvador because he was no longer divided.

How to know if you have this blockage: ** #

✓ Chronic indecisiveness in important decisions.
✓ Feeling of "not belonging" anywhere.
✓ Constantly divided energy
✓ Can't be "present" where you are.
✓ Mediocre results despite effort.
✓ Living in perpetual "someday I'll be back".

📺 Watch: "The Paralysis of Double Belonging"

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7. HOW TO KNOW WHAT YOUR MAIN BLOCKAGE IS #

"The self-diagnosis that changes everything ". #

Most migrants have more than one blockage.

But there is always one main one that controls the others.

Quick identification test #

Read these 5 phrases, which one resonates MOST with you?

PHRASE 1: *"I FEEL THAT IF I PROSPER MORE THAN MY PARENTS, I BETRAY THEM.
"I feel that if I prosper more than my parents, I'm betraying them. " BLOCK: Family Glass Ceiling.
→ BLOCK: Family Glass Ceiling

PHASE 2:
"I can't enjoy my life because my family/country is suffering. "
→ BLOCK: Loyalty to suffering

PHASE 3:
"I feel I don't deserve to be where I am. I am an imposter. "
→ BLOCK: Transgenerational imposter

PHASE 4:
"Every time I am close to success, something ruins it. "
→ BLOCK: Fear of success

PHASE 5:** **"I'M PARALYZED.
I am paralyzed. I can't make decisions. I don't belong here and I don't belong there. "
→ BLOCK: Paralysis of double belonging.

Signs that you need professional help: ** #

✓ You identified your blockage but cannot release it on your own.
✓ You have tried multiple therapies with no results.
✓ Sabotage is destroying your life
✓ You are missing important opportunities
✓ Your health (physical or mental) is deteriorating
✓ Your relationships are suffering

**It's time for deep systemic work.

8. THE RELEASE PROCESS IN SESSION #

"How we release systemic blockages ". #

In the sessions, we work on the release of blockages on 4 simultaneous levels:

LEVEL 1: SYSTEMIC IDENTIFICATION: LEVEL 2: SYSTEMIC IDENTIFICATION.

We use family constellations to see the blockage in action:

• Where is it coming from?
• Who in your system is carrying it?
• What invisible allegiance is operating?
• What systemic conflict sustains it?

LEVEL 2: EMOTIONAL DEACTIVATION LEVEL 3: EMOTIONAL DEACTIVATION LEVEL 3: EMOTIONAL DEACTIVATION

We release the emotions that feed the blockage:

• Guilt
• Shame
• Fear
• Contained anger

Through:

• Vocal expression
• Body movement
• Cathartic crying
• Liberating breathing

LEVEL 3: SYSTEMIC REORGANIZATION LEVEL 3: SYSTEMIC REORGANIZATION **LEVEL 4: SYSTEMIC REORGANIZATION

We make the moves that restructure your system:

• Return what you are not entitled to carry
• Take the strength of the lineage
• Honor without suffering
• Release destructive loyalties

LEVEL 4: TRANSPERSONAL ANCHORING **LEVEL 4: TRANSPERSONAL ANCHORING

We connect with something larger than the ego to sustain change:

• Healed Ancestor Connection.
• Soul Purpose
• Transpersonal strength

I want you to see exactly how it works: ** #

Instead of explaining to you step by step, I want you to see with your own eyes how I work the blockage release:

📺 How a Family Constellation online session works #

In this video you will see:

✨ How we identify the specific systemic blockage.
✨ The movements that reorganize the family system.
✨ How trapped emotions are released.
✨ The "click" moment where everything changes.
✨ The before and after of a real client.

Watch it now to understand how I can help you break free.

9. DELIVERANCE TESTIMONIES #

John: "I broke the ceiling. Now I thrive without guilt. " #

*After 20 years of struggling, I finally understood why I wasn't moving forward.

*It wasn't a lack of effort. It was a systemic blockage.

*In the session with Alejandra, I released 3 blocks I didn't even know I had.

6 months later: promotion, salary increase, bought a house. 6 months later: promotion, salary increase, bought a house. *6 months later: promotion, salary increase, bought a house.

*Without sabotage. No guilt. No crisis.

*My wife says: 'I don't know what Alejandra did to you, but you're someone else'.

Ana: "Now I earn more than my father without betraying him ". #

*The $30,000 ceiling has been broken.

*This year I earned $80,000.

*And the most incredible thing: my father is PROUD.

*I didn't betray him by prospering. I honored him.

Miguel: "I am no longer an imposter. I deserve to be here. " #

*I stopped over-preparing myself compulsively.

*I asked for the raise that I had been putting off for years.

*"And I got it.

*Because I finally believed I deserved it.

10. THE IDENTIFICATION EXERCISE YOU CAN DO TODAY #

"Discover your main blockage in 15 minutes ". #

You will need:

• 15 minutes without interruptions
• Paper and pen
• Brutal honesty with yourself

EXERCISE: MAPPING OF YOUR BLOCKAGE #

STEP 1: IDENTIFY YOUR PATTERN (5 min)** **.

Answer:

1. *What is the area where I struggle the most (money, relationships, health, identity)?
2. *What pattern repeats (sabotage, paralysis, guilt, fear)?
3. When specifically does the blockage appear? (just before success, when I am doing well, when making decisions)

STEP 2: TRANSGENERATIONAL TRACKING (5 min).

Ask yourself:

1. *Who in my family had a similar pattern?
2. *What beliefs did they express about money/success/happiness?
3. *What happened to them when they tried to prosper?

STEP 3: IDENTIFY INVISIBLE LOYALTY (5 min)** **.

Complete this sentence:

"If I prosper/am happy/successful...I feel I betray ____________"

And then:

"The invisible belief I carry is: ____________"

Examples:** ** "If I earn more than my father, I dishonor him.

• If I earn more than my father, I dishonor him "* *.
• If I am happy while my family suffers, I abandon them.
• If I am successful, I will cease to be who I am "* Examples: *"If I am successful, I will cease to be who I am.

STEP 4: NAME YOUR BLOCKAGE** STEP 4: NAME YOUR BLOCKAGE

Based on what you discovered, identify your main blockage:

1. family glass ceiling
2. Loyalty to suffering
3. Transgenerational imposter
4. Fear of success
5. Paralysis of double belonging

**STEP 5: DECISION

Now that you know what your blockage is....

What are you going to do about it?

Options:

• Nothing (stay the same)
• Try alone (difficult but possible)
• Seek professional help (more effective)

**The choice is yours.

11. START YOUR RELEASE PROCESS #

"How many more years are you going to let these blocks control your life? " #

You have read this far.

That means something.

It means you recognize that there is something blocking your prosperity.

Something that is not lack of effort.
Something that is not bad luck.

**Something systemic.

And now you have two options:

OPTION 1: Close this page and continue to struggle alone.

OPTION 2: Take the plunge and do the deep work that liberates.

In our blockage releasing sessions we will work on:** ** #

✓ Identifying your main systemic blockage.
✓ Tracking the transgenerational origin.
✓ Releasing the emotions that feed it.
✓ Reorganizing your family system.
✓ Defusing the invisible loyalties.
✓ Activating the systemic permissions you need to thrive.

All from the comfort of your home, in deep and transformative online sessions.

Imagine your life without these blocks: ** Imagine your life without these blocks:

✨ Thrive without guilt
✨ Enjoy without sabotage.
✨ To move forward without paralysis
✨ Succeed without fear
✨ Belonging without dividing you.

**It's possible. And it's closer than you think.

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About the Lion Method of shamanic Healing **[About the Lion Method of shamanic Healing #

This holistic approach allows me to work on blockages at all levels:

• Systemic identification
• Emotional release
• Family reorganization
• Transpersonal activation
• Anchoring in the body

**Profound results. Lasting transformation.

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