Healing Family Ties: Exploring the Weight of Family Expectations

Published January 25, 2024

Healing Family Ties: Exploring the Weight of Family Expectations

In the sacred fabric of our lives, family expectations and generational legacy form invisible threads that connect us to our parents, grandparents and an entire ancestral system. In this journey of exploration, we discover how these energies can shape our decisions and how to free ourselves to live authentically.

Roots of Expectations: Unraveling Beliefs and Healing with Family Constellation 🌿💖

In the healing journey of family constellations, we dive deep into the family roots to understand the expectations ingrained in the fabric of our lives. As a holistic psychologist and healer, I know that when we embrace this conscious exploration. Magic happens, the true release of emotional knots that allows positive energy to flow.

How to begin to release emotional burdens:

1. Recognizing Invisible Chains:

Recognizing The first step toward release is full, non-judgmental recognition of the emotions you harbor. From sadness to joy, each emotion has its own sacred story. Through family constellations, we illuminate the deep connections between your emotions and the experiences of your ancestors, creating space for understanding and respect.

Dialogue with the Soul: We initiate a loving dialogue with your soul, exploring the deepest layers of your being. Family constellations act as a beacon of light in this process, revealing the hidden dynamics that have shaped your emotional patterns. We dive into the quantum field of the family, where energies intertwine and emotional charges find their voice.

Healing and Release Rituals: Through rituals and spiritual practices, I guide you in creating sacred spaces to release emotions that no longer serve your highest good. We use cosmic energy and constellations as allies in this alchemical process, transforming burdens into lessons of love and wisdom.

Connection with the Family Tree: We explore the roots of emotions, emotions and emotions.
We explore the roots of emotions, connecting with the stories of your family tree. Constellations reveal inherited patterns, allowing compassion and forgiveness to flow to those who have carried these burdens before you. In this process, you become the conscious architect of your emotional legacy.
*Imagine someone who has always felt pressure to follow a specific career path in their family, even though that choice does not resonate with their true passion. In consultation, we explore the family tree with family constellations to discover the source of this expectation and how it has affected generations.

A common case that is revealed through constellation is that this expectation originated from an ancestor who had to give up his or her dreams due to difficult circumstances. By understanding this, the person can free themselves emotionally, recognizing that they are not alone in this experience and choosing a more authentic path.

2. Ideticizing limiting beliefs

As a holistic psychologist, we dive deep into excavating limiting beliefs, unraveling the roots that have woven their presence into the garden of your being. We are here to illuminate this process of self-discovery, releasing the bondages that have limited your growth and well-being.
Some of the most common limiting beliefs in my sessions are

The "I'm Not Enough" Beliefv: In many cases, people carry with them an ingrained belief that they are not capable, intelligent or deserving enough. This limiting belief can manifest in a variety of areas, from relationships to professional achievement. Through holistic exploration, we unravel this idea and foster self-compassion and self-acceptance.

Fear of Failure and Success: Fear of failure and success can create paralysis in decision making. Unraveling these beliefs involves exploring past experiences that have contributed to this fear. By understanding the connection between your experiences and these beliefs, you open up space for redefining success and failure, promoting a growth mindset.

The idea that there is scarcity in the world, whether in terms of love, abundance or opportunity, can limit the ability to fully enjoy life. From the holistic perspective, unraveling this belief involves connecting with the abundance of the universe and shifting the focus to gratitude and appreciation.

Self-criticism and Perfectionism: Many carry beliefs rooted in self-criticism and perfectionism, creating constant pressure. Unraveling these beliefs involves exploring the source of unrealistic expectations and encouraging self-acceptance. It seeks to release self-demand and allow for growth through

3. Transforming Family Traditions:

In my holistic psychology and healing sessions we encourage positive transformation of family traditions that may be contributing to unwanted expectations. Family constellation allows us to visualize these dynamics and trigger significant changes.

I encourage you to take the step toward a more fulfilling and satisfying life. Are you ready to explore the traces of your ancestors and free yourself from limiting expectations? Together, we will work to overcome obstacles, strengthen your self-esteem and move towards a happier and more fulfilling life.

Don't let the past and limiting beliefs define your future, it's time to take control of your life and experience the transformation you deserve!

Contact me today and let's begin this journey to emotional wellness and personal growth.

With love,

Shaman Alejandra,

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The session was absolutely incredible! I was able to heal a very deep wound... Alejandra is absolutely sweet and beautifully grounded. My family constellation session was incredible! I had heard about this kind of modality, but never signed on to receive a session. Well, I've been going deep into my inner work, and it seemed like everywhere I turned I was being nudged to book a session. So I booked, and the session was absolutely incredible! Definitely have your tissues ready! What I loved. The most was some thing that I thought I made peace with showed a completely different side to look at and I was able to heal a very deep wound that really was hurting me personally in my life. Alejandra is absolutely sweet and beautifully grounded. She is so easy to talk to, and is so intuitive. I absolutely loved my session, and highly recommend everyone do so!

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Family Constellations by Alejandra are the most powerful therapy sessions I've ever had... She is very gifted and she is a gift to the world. Family Constellations by Alejandra are the most powerful therapy sessions I've ever had. She takes you straight to the root cause and the place you have never imagined your problems lie. She is very gifted and she is a gift to the world. I sent many friends her way and every single one them were in awe.

Laura D. USA

This was my second session with Alejandra and as the last one was, it was transformative! I am excited to see the positive changes it will make in my life as the last one did. This was my second session with Alejandra and as the last one was, it was transformative! I am excited to see the positive changes it will make in my life as the last one did. Thank you Alejandra!

Maureen R. USA

Amazing deep healing... feel like entire planets and constellations are moving right now. She is worth having a session with and discovering this deep river of healing love. Amazing deep healing: the place within that never was able to move never was clear never had a voice: all was opened up, revealed and spoken with in the healing space Alejandra creates and opens. She is very sweet and safe to share with and very focused on the work and healing that needs to be addressed here and now no matter how back in the generations the issues are located. She is very patient and deeply into feelings: she gave me time to really deeply feel inside and all the places shapes and forms those feelings are within me. She assisted me in speaking more clearly with myself. She gave me many suggestions for integration and deeper embrace of the work done in session. i feel very complete and very supported and free to return to her for more work if I choose to. I am gonna choose. All the power in my life is mine to choose and direct and show up in. It was fun, tender, deeply healing; feel like entire planets and constellations are moving right now. It will take some time for what was done in such a short time to move and dance and reveal. Again, I feel supported and safe and clear in the process I am in. I am grateful for Alejandra. My experience is she is worth having a session with and discovering this deep river of healing love that she offers.

Tigres USA

I was reassured from the very first session that she was the right person to help me... I'll be forever thankful. I'm so thankful for having found Alejandra and have her guide me through my journey to healing. Having had unpleasant and unhelpful experiences with therapy and psychoanalysis before, I was reassured from the very first session that she was the right person to help me get control over my anxiety, overcome childhood trauma and connect with spirituality. I have been able to find a way to forgive and love myself and with this love all those around me. She helped me rebuild self confidence that have made a big difference in my personal and professional life. I know feel like I have the tools to deal with life's difficulties and find enjoyment in every day. I'll be forever thankful.

Lorena D. USA

Alejandra is much more than a therapist: she's a true guide and a light on my journey toward acceptance and personal growth. Alejandra is much more than a therapist: she's a true guide and a light on my journey toward acceptance and personal growth. I've worked with her on many aspects of my life, and thanks to her support, I'm beginning to achieve dreams that once seemed impossible. She listens with empathy, delves deeply without judgment, knows how to guide you where you need to go, and you feel she truly cares. I'll never tire of thanking her for her presence in my life.

Ana R. USA

My session with Alejandra was amazing... I felt relief and peace and new realizations came to me during and after the session. My session with Alejandra was amazing. She was able to tune in deeply into our family constellation and bring up some very important insights. I felt relief and peace and new realizations came to me during and after the session.

Svemir B. USA

Alexandra led me through a family constellation and she did it with insight, skill, simplicity and love... I recommend your work to anyone seeking clarity. Alexandra led me through a family constellation and she did it with insight, skill, simplicity and love. Thank you for shedding further light on my situation, Alexandra, it's been very helpful to me. I recommend your work to anyone seeking clarity.

Pearl Y. USA

I will always be grateful for her dedication since there were days that it was challenging to speak and she had the patience and the right words. It took me years to find someone that I can trust about my personal life. I tried different therapists that only wanted to give me medication for my anxiety during the first session. However, Alejandra never give up on me and I was able to open myself about my childhood problems that I carried my whole life. I speak Spanish and English, but when I tried talking about my childhood in English, it was hard to express myself and finding someone that can speak Spanish was plus in my journey. I will always be grateful for her dedication since there were days that it was challenging to speak and she had the patience and the right words.

Angelica Y. USA

I've found each session to be profoundly moving... The time and experience has felt sacred to me. I've attended 3 sessions with Alejandra and Jay. I've found each session to be profoundly moving in a unique way. The time and experience has felt sacred to me, and that would not be possible without the care and supportive attention of the facilitators. I would recommend them to anyone interested in growth and prepared for a challenge.

Trevor K. USA

Alejandra really taps into the Energy... You will feel a lot lighter in your Being. Alejandra really taps into the Energy of the room and I felt it was a safe place to release and resolve past family issues. Would highly recommend anyone to try her services. You will feel a lot lighter in your Being. Infinite Gratitude

Harry W. USA

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