Family Constellations. The Transformative Power of a Conversation with your Grandmother.

Published February 21, 2020

Family Constellations. The Transformative Power of a Conversation with your Grandmother.

The Power of Healing Your Family History: What a Conversation with Your Ancestors Can Change

Do you ever feel like something in your life doesn't fit, like you're carrying an invisible burden that isn't yours?
Perhaps there are patterns that repeat themselves generation after generation: broken relationships, illness, unprocessed grief, unresolved conflicts. All this might not start with you, but long before...

When You Carry Stories That Aren't Yours

Today, someone sent me a video thanking me for my therapies. It was a deeply moving moment that reminded me why I do this work. However, after that joy, I was overcome with nostalgia.

I have a mole that connects to my maternal lineage, but I could never look my grandmothers in the eye. One died in the war when my mother was still a child. The other passed away shortly after my birth.
**Have you ever longed to meet someone in your family who marked your history, even though you never met them?

That is the imprint of the transgenerational. An invisible but powerful energy that often conditions our emotions, decisions and relationships.

What is not spoken, is repeated.

Carrying unspoken stories in our souls can generate anxiety, identity conflicts and even illnesses.
Why do I sabotage myself? Why do I find it hard to let go of a relationship? Why do I feel sadness for no reason?
The answer often lies in silenced family stories.

👉 When we ignore the history of our ancestors, we disconnect from our roots and also from our inner strength.

🔍 "By listening to our elders, we heal stories of deep pain..." says singer-songwriter Rozalén, whose inspiration for her most transcendental album was born from learning her grandmother's story.
That conversation changed her career and her life. What if one conversation could do the same for you?

Healing with Family Constellations and Listening with the Heart

Intergenerational relationships are the key to understanding who we are and where we are going.
According to Bert Hellinger, creator of family constellations, recognizing our ancestors and their destiny is essential to regain inner peace and order.
Benefits of reconnecting with your lineage:

✅ Healing inherited emotional wounds.
✅ Free yourself from repetitive patterns.
✅ Feel at peace with your history.
✅ Improve your current relationships
✅ Strengthen your identity and self-esteem ✅ Strengthen your self-esteem and identity

Why Conversations with your Grandparents Heal?

An authentic conversation with a grandparent - present or symbolic - can act as a bridge between the past and your present. From the perspective of family constellations and biodecoding, these talks help us to:

💬 Discover hidden dynamics in the family system.
❤️ Reconcile with painful stories and give them a new meaning.
🧠 Integrate ancestral wisdom into our current decisions
🧘‍♀️ Closing cycles and making space for abundance and love
🌱 How to Start Your Transgenerational Healing?

Healing your family tree is not only an act of introspection, it is an act of love towards yourself and future generations.
Family constellations are a profound and revealing tool to reconnect with your history from the soul, without judgment, with respect.

🔑 Keys to get started:

Listen without judgment to your elders or their stories.

Honor your parents and grandparents as the pillars of your existence.

Let go of the judgments and expectations you inherited.

Open your heart to what was and decide what you want it to be.

🙋‍♀️ Are you Ready to Heal?

I am Alejandra León, psychologist, holistic healer and specialist in transgenerational healing with more than 20 years of experience accompanying deep transformation processes.

👉 Book your family constellation session, online or in person.
Open the space to heal your story and start a new chapter.

💡 Final Reflection:

"A single conversation with an ancestor can change your destiny. It's not magic, it's connection. And connection...transforms everything."