Family Constellations. The Transformative Power of a Conversation with your Grandmother.

Published February 21, 2020

Family Constellations. The Transformative Power of a Conversation with your Grandmother.

The Power of Healing Your Family History: What a Conversation with Your Ancestors Can Change

Do you ever feel like something in your life doesn't fit, like you're carrying an invisible burden that isn't yours?
Perhaps there are patterns that repeat themselves generation after generation: broken relationships, illness, unprocessed grief, unresolved conflicts. All this might not start with you, but long before...

When You Carry Stories That Aren't Yours

Today, someone sent me a video thanking me for my therapies. It was a deeply moving moment that reminded me why I do this work. However, after that joy, I was overcome with nostalgia.

I have a mole that connects to my maternal lineage, but I could never look my grandmothers in the eye. One died in the war when my mother was still a child. The other passed away shortly after my birth.
**Have you ever longed to meet someone in your family who marked your history, even though you never met them?

That is the imprint of the transgenerational. An invisible but powerful energy that often conditions our emotions, decisions and relationships.

What is not spoken, is repeated.

Carrying unspoken stories in our souls can generate anxiety, identity conflicts and even illnesses.
Why do I sabotage myself? Why do I find it hard to let go of a relationship? Why do I feel sadness for no reason?
The answer often lies in silenced family stories.

👉 When we ignore the history of our ancestors, we disconnect from our roots and also from our inner strength.

🔍 "By listening to our elders, we heal stories of deep pain..." says singer-songwriter Rozalén, whose inspiration for her most transcendental album was born from learning her grandmother's story.
That conversation changed her career and her life. What if one conversation could do the same for you?

Healing with Family Constellations and Listening with the Heart

Intergenerational relationships are the key to understanding who we are and where we are going.
According to Bert Hellinger, creator of family constellations, recognizing our ancestors and their destiny is essential to regain inner peace and order.
Benefits of reconnecting with your lineage:

✅ Healing inherited emotional wounds.
✅ Free yourself from repetitive patterns.
✅ Feel at peace with your history.
✅ Improve your current relationships
✅ Strengthen your identity and self-esteem ✅ Strengthen your self-esteem and identity

Why Conversations with your Grandparents Heal?

An authentic conversation with a grandparent - present or symbolic - can act as a bridge between the past and your present. From the perspective of family constellations and biodecoding, these talks help us to:

💬 Discover hidden dynamics in the family system.
❤️ Reconcile with painful stories and give them a new meaning.
🧠 Integrate ancestral wisdom into our current decisions
🧘‍♀️ Closing cycles and making space for abundance and love
🌱 How to Start Your Transgenerational Healing?

Healing your family tree is not only an act of introspection, it is an act of love towards yourself and future generations.
Family constellations are a profound and revealing tool to reconnect with your history from the soul, without judgment, with respect.

🔑 Keys to get started:

Listen without judgment to your elders or their stories.

Honor your parents and grandparents as the pillars of your existence.

Let go of the judgments and expectations you inherited.

Open your heart to what was and decide what you want it to be.

🙋‍♀️ Are you Ready to Heal?

I am Alejandra León, psychologist, holistic healer and specialist in transgenerational healing with more than 20 years of experience accompanying deep transformation processes.

👉 Book your family constellation session, online or in person.
Open the space to heal your story and start a new chapter.

💡 Final Reflection:

"A single conversation with an ancestor can change your destiny. It's not magic, it's connection. And connection...transforms everything."

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The session was absolutely incredible! I was able to heal a very deep wound... Alejandra is absolutely sweet and beautifully grounded. My family constellation session was incredible! I had heard about this kind of modality, but never signed on to receive a session. Well, I've been going deep into my inner work, and it seemed like everywhere I turned I was being nudged to book a session. So I booked, and the session was absolutely incredible! Definitely have your tissues ready! What I loved. The most was some thing that I thought I made peace with showed a completely different side to look at and I was able to heal a very deep wound that really was hurting me personally in my life. Alejandra is absolutely sweet and beautifully grounded. She is so easy to talk to, and is so intuitive. I absolutely loved my session, and highly recommend everyone do so!

Mariette A. USA

Family Constellations by Alejandra are the most powerful therapy sessions I've ever had... She is very gifted and she is a gift to the world. Family Constellations by Alejandra are the most powerful therapy sessions I've ever had. She takes you straight to the root cause and the place you have never imagined your problems lie. She is very gifted and she is a gift to the world. I sent many friends her way and every single one them were in awe.

Laura D. USA

This was my second session with Alejandra and as the last one was, it was transformative! I am excited to see the positive changes it will make in my life as the last one did. This was my second session with Alejandra and as the last one was, it was transformative! I am excited to see the positive changes it will make in my life as the last one did. Thank you Alejandra!

Maureen R. USA

Amazing deep healing... feel like entire planets and constellations are moving right now. She is worth having a session with and discovering this deep river of healing love. Amazing deep healing: the place within that never was able to move never was clear never had a voice: all was opened up, revealed and spoken with in the healing space Alejandra creates and opens. She is very sweet and safe to share with and very focused on the work and healing that needs to be addressed here and now no matter how back in the generations the issues are located. She is very patient and deeply into feelings: she gave me time to really deeply feel inside and all the places shapes and forms those feelings are within me. She assisted me in speaking more clearly with myself. She gave me many suggestions for integration and deeper embrace of the work done in session. i feel very complete and very supported and free to return to her for more work if I choose to. I am gonna choose. All the power in my life is mine to choose and direct and show up in. It was fun, tender, deeply healing; feel like entire planets and constellations are moving right now. It will take some time for what was done in such a short time to move and dance and reveal. Again, I feel supported and safe and clear in the process I am in. I am grateful for Alejandra. My experience is she is worth having a session with and discovering this deep river of healing love that she offers.

Tigres USA

I was reassured from the very first session that she was the right person to help me... I'll be forever thankful. I'm so thankful for having found Alejandra and have her guide me through my journey to healing. Having had unpleasant and unhelpful experiences with therapy and psychoanalysis before, I was reassured from the very first session that she was the right person to help me get control over my anxiety, overcome childhood trauma and connect with spirituality. I have been able to find a way to forgive and love myself and with this love all those around me. She helped me rebuild self confidence that have made a big difference in my personal and professional life. I know feel like I have the tools to deal with life's difficulties and find enjoyment in every day. I'll be forever thankful.

Lorena D. USA

Alejandra is much more than a therapist: she's a true guide and a light on my journey toward acceptance and personal growth. Alejandra is much more than a therapist: she's a true guide and a light on my journey toward acceptance and personal growth. I've worked with her on many aspects of my life, and thanks to her support, I'm beginning to achieve dreams that once seemed impossible. She listens with empathy, delves deeply without judgment, knows how to guide you where you need to go, and you feel she truly cares. I'll never tire of thanking her for her presence in my life.

Ana R. USA

My session with Alejandra was amazing... I felt relief and peace and new realizations came to me during and after the session. My session with Alejandra was amazing. She was able to tune in deeply into our family constellation and bring up some very important insights. I felt relief and peace and new realizations came to me during and after the session.

Svemir B. USA

Alexandra led me through a family constellation and she did it with insight, skill, simplicity and love... I recommend your work to anyone seeking clarity. Alexandra led me through a family constellation and she did it with insight, skill, simplicity and love. Thank you for shedding further light on my situation, Alexandra, it's been very helpful to me. I recommend your work to anyone seeking clarity.

Pearl Y. USA

I will always be grateful for her dedication since there were days that it was challenging to speak and she had the patience and the right words. It took me years to find someone that I can trust about my personal life. I tried different therapists that only wanted to give me medication for my anxiety during the first session. However, Alejandra never give up on me and I was able to open myself about my childhood problems that I carried my whole life. I speak Spanish and English, but when I tried talking about my childhood in English, it was hard to express myself and finding someone that can speak Spanish was plus in my journey. I will always be grateful for her dedication since there were days that it was challenging to speak and she had the patience and the right words.

Angelica Y. USA

I've found each session to be profoundly moving... The time and experience has felt sacred to me. I've attended 3 sessions with Alejandra and Jay. I've found each session to be profoundly moving in a unique way. The time and experience has felt sacred to me, and that would not be possible without the care and supportive attention of the facilitators. I would recommend them to anyone interested in growth and prepared for a challenge.

Trevor K. USA

Alejandra really taps into the Energy... You will feel a lot lighter in your Being. Alejandra really taps into the Energy of the room and I felt it was a safe place to release and resolve past family issues. Would highly recommend anyone to try her services. You will feel a lot lighter in your Being. Infinite Gratitude

Harry W. USA

I find Family Constellations Therapy an astounding modality... I felt they created a highly warm, caring, and safe container. Let's face it, meeting our challenges head on and create change in our life is not always an easy task. Nor is the direction always clear and comfortable. To gain more insights and discover the root cause of issues there's a way. Throughout the years, I have involved myself in many healing practices. I wanted to live a life that I could thrive in rather than survive in. I find Family Constellations Therapy an astounding modality for this. It has really assisted me to dive deep within myself. I have created more understanding, peace, love, balance, and harmony in my life with a way that I feel is efficient, has grace, dignity, empathy, and compassion. My experience with Jay and Ale was very positive. I felt they created a highly warm, caring, and safe container to do the work needed. I found them to be extremely passionate and excellent teachers and guides with this process. I look forward to experiencing more Family Constellations Therapy Workshops with them. Here's to being unlimited!

Bekki S. USA