Family Constellations. Healing the Relationship with Mom: Releasing Unconscious Patterns.

When there is a broken or fractured relationship with Mom from a family constellation perspective, complex dynamics can emerge that profoundly affect our lives and relationships. In family constellations, it is understood that each family member has a place and a role to play within the family system, and any rupture in these relationships can have a significant impact on the overall dynamics of the system.

The relationship with mom is the foundation of all our relationships, the reflection of our existence since before we were born. In her womb we find the warmth, security and nurturing that allowed us to grow. Through her eyes, we see ourselves and the world around us. Mom represents wholeness, origin, the purest and most unconditional love.

For women, Mom is the model of femininity, of motherhood, of love. She is the guide that can be replicated or rejected, shaping our own feminine identity. For the man, mom is the first love, the model of womanhood that will guide his choices, his relationships and his understanding of the feminine world.

When there is a broken or fractured relationship with mom from a family constellation perspective, complex dynamics can emerge that profoundly affect our lives and relationships. In family constellations, it is understood that each family member has a place and a role to play within the family system, and any rupture in these relationships can have a significant impact on the overall dynamics of the system.When the relationship with mom is broken, whether due to unresolved conflicts, past traumas or dysfunctional patterns in the family, various effects can emerge:

Feelings of abandonment or rejection: A broken relationship with Mom can lead to feelings of abandonment or rejection, which can affect our self-esteem and our ability to establish healthy relationships in the future.

Repetitive behavior patterns: Unresolved conflicts with mom can lead to repetition of dysfunctional behavior patterns in our own relationships, whether with our partners, children or other family members.

Blocks in receiving love and abundance: A broken relationship with mom can create blocks in our ability to receive love and abundance in our lives. This can manifest in difficulties in establishing intimate relationships, financial problems or a general sense of dissatisfaction.

**Invisible loyalties: In family constellations, it is recognized that we often maintain invisible loyalties to our family members, even if the relationship is broken. These loyalties can limit our ability to live our own lives fully and authentically.

Imbalances in the family system: A broken relationship with Mom can create imbalances in the entire family system, affecting all family members in different ways. These imbalances may manifest in health problems, financial difficulties or interpersonal conflicts.

In family constellations, we seek to heal these ruptures and restore balance within the family system. Through the exploration of family dynamics and the identification of emotional blockages, we can work to heal the wounds of the past and open the way to healthier relationships and a more fulfilling and satisfying life.

From the perspective of holistic psychology, we dive into the depths of the family soul to unravel the knots that bind us and find lost peace and harmony. Let me share with you some of the transformative benefits of this process:

Release from Repetitive Patterns: By exploring our family history and the patterns of behavior that repeat throughout the generations, we can free ourselves from emotional burdens and limiting behaviors that have been affecting our lives without our awareness. For example, a person may discover that he or she repeats dysfunctional relationship patterns in his or her love life that go back to unresolved conflicts in the relationship with his or her mother.

Reconnecting with Ancestral Wisdom: By healing our relationship with our ancestors, we open ourselves to the wisdom and support of the generations that came before us. This can manifest in a sense of connection to our roots, a deeper understanding of our life purpose and greater clarity in our decisions and actions.

Healing of Emotional Wounds: Healing with the ancestors and the mother gives us the opportunity to heal the emotional wounds we have carried with us throughout our lives. For example, a person may experience a deep emotional release by forgiving his or her mother for painful events in the past and recognizing that she did the best she could with the resources she had at the time.

Restoring Family Balance: By working with family dynamics and invisible loyalties, we can help restore balance in the family system. This can have a positive impact on all family members, even those who are deceased. For example, a person may experience an improvement in physical health after healing the relationship with an ancestor who had experienced a similar illness.

Personal Empowerment: By becoming aware of our family connections and healing relationships with our ancestors and our mother, we become empowered to take control of our lives and create our own destiny. This can manifest in greater self-confidence, an increased ability to set healthy boundaries, and an overall sense of well-being and wholeness.

Ready to free yourself from the burdens of the past and open up to a future full of possibilities?

**It's time to begin your healing journey with your mother and receive the abundance you deserve!

With Alejandra León, you will experience a deep and lasting transformation.

My unique approach to healing your relationship with your mother will guide you to a new understanding of yourself and your place in the world.

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