Family Constellations Can I constellate after losing a loved one?
Published September 20, 2024
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Hello, I am Alejandra León, Psychologist and healer and in this video, we address one of the most common questions after the loss of a loved one: Is it advisable to do a family constellation immediately after the death of a close relative?
From the experience of more than 20 years in psychology and healing, we analyze the importance of respecting the natural grieving process before constellating.
You will learn five key reasons to wait and how this approach can help you heal more deeply and effectively.
Don't miss this reflection that can change your perspective on grief and family constellations.
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My session with Alejandra was amazing... I felt relief and peace and new realizations came to me during and after the session. My session with Alejandra was amazing. She was able to tune in deeply into our family constellation and bring up some very important insights. I felt relief and peace and new realizations came to me during and after the session.
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Yesterday I experienced a miracle guided by the hands and words of Alejandra. Yesterday I experienced a miracle guided by the hands and words of Alejandra. I had worked with multiple therapists in the past, trying to heal some very deep wounds related to my parents, but I never really achieved a sense of release and deep healing until my rebirthing session with Ale. I had never worked with an intuitive healer like her so frankly didn’t know what to expect, I just had a sense that she could help me, and she certainly did!
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Alexandra led me through a family constellation and she did it with insight, skill, simplicity and love... I recommend your work to anyone seeking clarity. Alexandra led me through a family constellation and she did it with insight, skill, simplicity and love. Thank you for shedding further light on my situation, Alexandra, it's been very helpful to me. I recommend your work to anyone seeking clarity.
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Maureen R.
I had a huge breakthrough on the one assignment I gave myself before incarnating. It was Powerful. The Family Constellation Workshop was very insightful and transformative. I had a huge breakthrough on the one assignment I gave myself before incarnating. It was Powerful. Ale and Jay worked with the energies and assisted to bring it out. I love how they knew what was needed. Thank you so much!
Raquel X.
What we worked on has been very useful to me, especially the regression to my childhood where we worked on my... What we worked on has been very useful to me, especially the regression to my childhood where we worked on my relationship with my father and explored our priest-slave relationship. It has been eye-opening for me and has allowed me to understand many things about my relationship with him and my own father. I also remember your help in achieving our goal of moving to Brussels, and I vividly recall your prediction that I wouldn't return to my previous life.
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She also instills confidence in you the moment you cross the threshold of her door... and I believe this is the most important part, she shows you the tools you possess. When I arrived at Alejandra's office, I was immersed in deep sadness (even though doctors said it was depression). A friend had recommended her to me, and she had warned me that she was an unconventional therapist, which becomes evident from the very first moment. Not only does she incorporate everything related to energies and chakras into her work (a completely unknown world to me), but she also instills confidence in you the moment you cross the threshold of her door. In contrast to my initial expectations, my therapy with her lasted only a few months (previously, I had been with another therapist for two years), and this was thanks to the fact that, in addition to healing you (yes, Alejandra manages to help you recover, of course, you have to do your part), and I believe this is the most important part, she shows you the tools you possess. Firstly, to avoid relapses, and secondly, and no less important, tools to value yourself, achieve your goals, mend your relationships with those around you, make peace with the past, and ultimately be at peace with yourself and the world, learning to enjoy whatever life may bring your way.
VeronicaSpain
Alejandra is a great professional and, above all, a wonderful person, warm and welcoming, who accompanied me throughout this process. I met Alejandra through two very important and beloved people in my life. When I decided not to allow my distress to limit my life increasingly, I thought I was embarking on a lengthy therapeutic process with many doubts about the outcome because my mind was saying, 'If you break a leg, you get it casted and it heals, but if you have psychological problems, treatment is much more complicated...' I even initially doubted this type of therapy, so unconventional. However, Alejandra is a great professional and, above all, a wonderful person, warm and welcoming, who accompanied me throughout this process in which I knew what had triggered it but didn't know how to stop or control it, and just a few months later, my therapy ended... and what do I take away? I take away that nine years after the painful death of my mother, I was able to release the distress that was conditioning my life. I take away that I could understand that the role I played in the family made me assume responsibilities that were not mine to bear. I take away that I learned that the words with which you confront your fears can not only maintain them but also increase them. I take away that I realized, with surprise, that I imposed a multitude of duties or tasks on myself and hardly did any of the few things I enjoyed. I take away that I am powerful because I not only know the 'why' but also the 'how'... Thank you, Alejandra, for helping me on my journey.
